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Mother's Memorial Marks Toddler's Passing at Lopez Community Garden

A little boy whose life was taken by cancer in July lives on in the toys his mother, a North End of Middletown resident, has placed in the garden near her home.

Editor's Note: This piece was originally posted on the Community Health Center website's Healthy Communities Online section on Aug. 2. Aldon Hynes eloquently paid tribute to former North End resident Junaid, "JuJu," who passed away on July 11 from Stage 4 neuroblastoma cancer at the age of 2. He's allowed Middletown Patch to reprint his article here.

“No man is an island…”

The famous words of the great English Poet John Donne rattle through my mind as I sit at my desk. The other day, a friend’s father passed away and it has set a tone for the week. I put on a medley of songs of remembrance. Sarah McLachlan's voice comes through the speakers, “Will you remember me?”

As is often the case, it’s been a busy week in the communications department at CHC. Wednesday, I found myself sitting at the conference room table discussing yet another important issue. There was a card on the table. It says, “Ramadan Mubarak” across the top and shows a beautiful young boy in a field.

“What’s this?” one of my co-workers asks. Later, we’re told that it is part of a memorial down in the for some kid that recently died.

Fighting back the tears, I excuse myself and rush down stairs, hoping that the mourners are still there and that I can share words of condolence with his mother.

“Each man’s death diminishes me, for I am involved in mankind.”

This is not the memorial for some kid. It is the memorial for Junaid. The back of the card reads:

In the name of Allah

Junaid

From Allah we come & to Allah we return

DOB May 13th, 2010
DOD July 11th, 2012 from
Stage 4 Neuroblastoma Cancer

In the arms of his loving mother.

No, this is not the memorial for some kid. It is the memorial for the son of a loving mother, it is the memorial for a member of our community. I had met the mother a few weeks earlier at a concert in the community garden. She spoke of how much her son loved music and flowers and how he would have loved to have been at the concert in the garden.

There is a great quote from the movie Norma Rae which comes to mind when I think about people that have died.

On October 4, 1970, my grandfather, Isaac Abraham Warshowsky, aged eighty-seven, died in his sleep in New York City. On the following Friday morning, his funeral was held. My mother and father attended, my two uncles from Brooklyn attended, my Aunt Minnie came up from Florida. Also present were eight hundred and sixty-two members of the Amalgamated Clothing Workers and Cloth, Hat and Cap Makers’ Union. Also members of his family. In death as in life, they stood at his side. They had fought battles with him, bound the wounds of battle with him, had earned bread together and had broken it together. When they spoke, they spoke in one voice, and they were heard. They were black, they were white, they were Irish, they were Polish, they were Catholic, they were Jews, they were one. That’s what a union is: one

Here in Middletown, 40 years later, similar words apply. In this case, we are talking about a young Muslim boy and his loving mother, and we are talking about being part of a community, not part of a union.

But that’s what we are, the Community Health Center with our Luis Lopez Community Garden. In death, as in life, we stand by one another.

Junaid's life will be celebrated in the Lopez Garden on Sept. 15 as part of Childhood Cancer Awareness Month. There will be a moment of silence to remember him as a community, his mother tells Middletown Patch. The Community Health Center is sponsoring the event, which will include refreshments.

Claudia White August 30, 2012 at 02:12 PM
I met JuJu at Middletown ACS Relay only weeks before he died. He was full of energy and life. He was so sweet, he made quite an impression on me and on my daughter. We will be forever propelled into fighting for cancer's end. Claudia and Cassidy
Claudia White August 30, 2012 at 02:14 PM
Thanks for publishing an article about such an important little member of our community.
Christina Batchelor September 05, 2012 at 04:48 AM
Thank you for posting this about my nephew Juju and my sister in Islam Nur I love them and I am happy to see the community is not lost:) Your words touched my heart. May peace be on you!
Umm Junaid~ Nur Moebius May 30, 2013 at 09:49 PM
I can't believe it's almost 1 year since my baby boy Ju Ju left this world and went to a better place, HEAVEN! Maamaa misses you Ju.

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